August 26, 2013;
Now the outpouring of my disappearance. My youngest, she had her first at 15. The father and his mother tried to get her to abort it, I prayed she kept the baby but the boyfriend dumped her and when the child was born he called the hospital screaming it wasn't his. A few years later she met another young man and became pregnant they stayed together a few years, he was controlling and selfish and she wanted out. Unfortunately, she got out by means of another young man. When I met this young man I told her to get away from him he would do more damage to her life than she would ever know. I said don't get pregnant by him, you'll never get rid of him he's bad.
She got pregnant and the relationship went bad very quickly. (I'm giving the condensed version) They finally split after he started hitting her and taking off for days at a time. She came home but she wouldn't stay and they ended up talking. One of her cousins died and she went to the funeral and who shows up. Him. She called me later to check in and I told her she needed to come home she needed to get away from him. 5:30 a.m. the next morning my daughter called me from the jail. She had gone with him, and he and his friend met another ex friend of theirs and they proceeded to get into a fight. She left quickly, but the father of her child didn't leave until he had done serious damage to the other person. Something apparently he had done before to other people.
After that day many days followed like the movie Lemony Snicketts series of unfortunate events. She had called a friend to bail her out he came to me telling me what he was doing, but nothing is without a price. And he tried to collect and she wouldn't comply with him. I explained to her that she owed it to him to do the work he wanted done, not knowing the pressure he was putting on her and not knowing how mentally not right he was. She had finally had enough of him and refused to do anymore work and started disappearing again. The next day he called child protective services on her and revoked her bail because he just didn't feel right about her anymore. But everyone including the police, the court, the lawyers, and CPS knew that he had a problem.
When he revoked her bail she went to jail. We couldn't post the bail until they booked her in and shipped her out. We did. She came home. There have been a series of court dates, come to find out those 3 boys had been fighting each other for a while, the victim admitted in the courtroom that they had been fighting for months. He knew they were going to fight.
The person that originally bailed her out came back to her trying to make nice again, but she wouldn't have any part of it. There are only two court dates left and things are looking very good. Lots of prayer God is amazingly wonderful he has provided all the way through.
I almost died several times, but she's home for a while stabilizing and enjoying her home.
There's more to the story but as with all things it's a little at a time. LOL and that was a little.
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