April 30, 2013;

Ladies always be very slow to sleep with someone no matter how much flattery is involved and especially if you've been given this person's past history and profile.  Do not buy into their slimy sweet talk it's a poison that will go into your brain and grow like a cancer. 

It's really not their fault, they're just doing what they've gotten away with forever, they're trying.  They try and they try and they try.  Honestly, I believe they get high just from the chase, and I believe that if you let them almost get there and they fail it's like an aphrodiatiac to them.  But don't sleep with them.  Definitely, do not tell them anything, not I love you (and they'll beg for that one), I like you, I want to see you, nothing.  Limit your comments to hmm, oh really, I see, that's funny, ur funny and finally,I have to go now. 

Guys like these are interested in one thing, repeatedly and with different people.  I think it's referred to as sports fucking. 

However, if you'll wait it out, string them along and just play for a while (mind you, it's out of shear boredom) they show their true colors and pretty soon you'll hear how they brought one of your friends a present, a small trinket, but still a token.  Luckily, for you, it never really mattered since you never gave them what they were after and trust me they'll tell you anything they think you'd like to hear i.e., I love you, I'm in love with you, I want the whole package, I want to marry you (here's where they are in complete desperation) I miss you so much, I just want to see you.  Blah blah, blah.  What I haven't quite figured out is how many people (and I say people because you really don't know if they go both ways) they are doing this with at the same time. 

Now, if you bored (which I often times become, I think I have a little ADD) then you can be polite, vague and very very general with them.  If you're not hanging up on them, then they think ahah! she likes me.  Not really, just bored, and you can choose to listen to them for a while, it won't last long, they're not that smart, but it's like any sitcom on TV it's entertainment for a minute.

Of course if you're working on your doctorate in psychology it's studying human nature, which is always productive LOL.