January 10, 2013

I love when the boss from another office comes to our office with copies of papers in his hand filled with indignation about things that don't mean anything.  All because his office manager has filled his head full of her rantings about her dissatification with life in general showing him papers with mistakes, which by the way have nothing to do with me, but he wants me to "understand" what he's dealing with.  I understand what he's dealing with, a contentious unhappy individual who just came back from vacation and wants to make her boss's life miserable.  In doing this however, he looked like a dog with his tail between his legs doing his master's bidding.  Sad part of it was I had to ask why he was bringing this stuff to me, what did he want me to do with it?  He wasn't sure.  He apparently lacks the lower portion of his body that would help him muster enough courage to fire the raging unhappy venemous snake, and so, with tail between his legs trys to make her happy?  Wow, pathetic.  I wander what she has on him????  LOL. 

At any rate my boss's wife was in the office with me trying to figure out what he was attempting to come to terms with so we made copies of the tickets he had so we could give them to our boss, so he could call the other boss and talk to him about a ticket that he probably will have talked to him about already, since he already talked to his son about it.  As you can see by this scenario the poor guy didn't look all that great.  And really didn't leave looking all that great.  You know, if that's what a woman does for a man, Damn!! 

Meanwhile, my daughter (schizophrenia) firmly believes I'm from the pit of hell,  I'm not sure I want to cosign on that, but there are days.  Now get this, my oldest daughter whose husband is in jail for hitting her has the option of going to a rehabilitation center for 4 months IF and I repeat IF my daughter would be willing to give them (who??) them 2,000.00 for his bed.  Then he can go, because they have no beds available right now.  What does this mean?????  They have beds? They don't  have beds??  Or they don't have beds and they'll kick a guy out who's not paying for a guy whose wife will pay for the rehabilitation of a man who hit her more than once???  So who's paying restitution????  And she was good with this, the public defender actually recommended this to her and she bought it hook line and sinker.  It took her boss to tell her she couldn't afford it, she needed to take care of her kids not an idiot sitting in jail who spent his money on a girlfriend, drugs and whatever else he felt like. 

This my friends is the pure meaning of codependency and why women who have been with these men need as much help as the men themselves.  As twisted and sick as the men are, that's how abused, battered, humiliated and martyred these women are.  And those closest to them are the very ones they will NOT listen to.